This is one of my favorite pictures of Mo and Co. It was taken the day we brought Co home from the hospital. Mo is still a young 3 years old and not quite sure what my going away in the middle of the night and coming home with a wrinkled, mewling loaf of bread means for her rotation around the Earth’s gravitational pull, but she’s adjusted.

Over the past 18 months, I’ve chased after her and Co with the camera, trying to capture their sisterly interactions, especially the ones that don’t involve pushing, shoving, eye poking, and whacking with assorted plush dolls — and that’s just Co. Everyone has told me that as they get older, they’ll become the best of friends and they’ll have such a good time together. Well, when Co is stealing crayons from Mo or Mo is commandeering Co’s baby doll and stroller and they’re basically acting like extras from John Dollar, I’m like, “Yeah, right.” I’m a baby sister; I’ve got an older brother — this is a new and improbable concept for me.

They loved each other very much, indeed. . .

So, I took the girls with me to Wal-Mart the other day, as I have decided to forego the ol’ sweatpants and Marvel Comic inspired T-shirt in favor of some honest to goodness pajamas. Me and VS don’t see eye to eye on sizing, and I knew my cart would be full of everything BUT the pajamas if I went to Tar-jay, so off to Sam Walton’s store we went.

Now, me and el Walla-Marte have a love/hate relationship. I love that they have stuff I need for pretty decent prices. I hate having to actually go there to get it. I don’t know about where you live, but most of the Wal-Marts around me are 1) in the ‘hood, 2) in the ghetto 3) in the hood next to the ghetto and 4) seemingly staff the most inbred, bass-ackwards, multi-syllabic named, “I’m-on-my-break” retorting types of individuals. And those are the managers! Let’s not even get started on the regular staff.

The last time I went to the customer service desk, I was second in line behind a super-quick transaction. When “Darryl Anne” (yes, that was her name) was processing my return, the phone started ringing. And ringing, and ringing, and ringing. And ringing. And I stood there and thought, so this is why the phone never gets answered. She was straight ignoring it. Finally, when it rang for the gazillionth time, ol’ Darryl Ann sauntered over to it, pick up the receiver like it had avian flu, and listened to the other end. Evidently, Joe Customer had given up and hung up and that did not sit well with Darryl Ann. I think she said something like, “How you just gonna hang up on me when I pick up the phone?! Dang!” And then Mo and Co said, “Dang!” in perfect unison and surround sound, and I said, “I’m never shopping here again.” But I digress.

We’re in the Wal-Mart, and I spy some nice Hanes cotton pajama pants on sale for like $6. Sweet! I scoop up two sizes and head off to the changing room to see which pair will work. I hate having to strip down period, let alone in a department store, but having to make a return to Wal-Mart — let’s just say I’d rather have my bikini line waxed and then daubed with an isopropyl alcohol and lemon juice cocktail.

I wheel Mo and Co into the handicapped dressing room, barr the door and turn my back to the mirror. I know what I’ve got; I don’t need to see it reflected back at me 3 ways. So, I’m kicking off my pants, sticking my feet in the first pair when this exchange transpires.

Mo: Mom, you’re little.

Me: Huh? What’d you say?

Mo: Mom, you’re little.

Me: Oh, thanks Mo! That’s so ni-

Mo (interrupting): No, Mom. You’re a little big for those!

Yeah, we didn’t get the pajamas pants or that box of Crayola’s she had in her traitorous little hands.

Kidding, kidding! I bought the pj’s. And the crayons!

So, I had written this hilarious post about Target and how I had come to love it and how the last time I was there, I actually left without buying anything — hence the title. Of course, I didn’t save it, so when the computer froze and then spontaneously shut down, I was like Floria Evans when James died.

Suffice it to say, I’m spent and so, instead of hearing about how the angels sang the Alleluia Chorus went the doors to Target opened the very first time I set foot into their store, here’s a photo from a walk around the block we took the other day. Yeah, I know; it’s not quite the same, but you’ve got to love the accessorizing that’s going on here.

And note to self. . .”Save, Saaaave, SAAAAAAAAAAAAAAVE!!”

So, I got a portable docking station for my iPod so that I can listen to my playlists when I’m moving around the house, picking up the assorted crapola that comes with living with people other than yourself. I’ve got my playlists named by what I’m usually doing when I listen to them or what kind of mindset I’m trying to get into. For example, I’ve got one called Dean’s List that I listen to when I study. It’s exclusively classical music, Tchaicovsky, Mozart, Bizet, that kind of thing. I can’t study with music that has lyrics because then I start to sing along and then I start writing things like, “It’s Britney, bitch,” instead of median nerve of the brachial plexus. And yes, I do listen to Britney Spears, but it’s not like I own ALL of her CDs. Anyway, you get the idea. I have is called, Size 8, that I listen to when I’m dying a slow and humiliating public death running at the YMCA. I have a Casino Royale playlist of all James Bond theme songs. And then I have another one of the leftover stuff that I can’t categorize into anything called AlphaBits. Yeah, I don’t get that name either, but it stuck.

AlphaBits is my go-to playlist when I’m at home and need some background music over the incessant toddler chatter about Disney Princesses, who really is Cinderella, why Co-dizz has to be the Beast, how come there aren’t any more Fruit Snacks and whether or not it’s time to watch Wonder Pets on Noggin. Pretty tame stuff on AlphaBits — no Uncle Luke, no Black Sabbath, nothing that would get a parental adivsory label on it. Just some feel-good music, like Eye of the Tiger. I mean, c’mon, who doesn’t get all Rocky-fied when they hear that song. I hear the opening bars and feel like I might just could get the vacuum down from the laundry room and actually DO something! Might. Just. Could.

Turns out, Mo-dizz is not immune to force of that Survivor powerhouse. Now, if I could just get her to pick up the crayons and puzzle pieces in between verses. . . .

And no, she didn’t get those moves from me.

So, school is back in session for me and I have been spending any and all me-myself-and-I time up to my eyesockets in the books. Or maybe I should say, up to my orbicularis oculi. Yeah, it’s pretty serious.

I’ve taken to getting up at 5:30am in order to catch a quick shower, and then study until 7am when I get the girls. I study whenever they are asleep or supposed to be sleeping. I see all components of the cardiovascular system behind my eyeballs and am constantly amazed how pervasive information about regulating heart rate, blood pressure, blood volume, and heart health is in our media.

In between all of this, I have somehow managed to make dinners, breakfasts, and lunches. I have bathed little bodies, washed inordinate amounts of laundry, put gas in my car, read innumerable pages of Shel Silverstein, Richard Scary, and friends innumerable amounts of time. Of course, “Sarah Cynthia Sylvia Stout” is one of my favorites, so I can’t complain on that one.

Somewhere in there, I took Mo-dizzle out to get her hair done — in a salon — just like a grown-up — for the very first time. We went to BestCuts and Miss Vonnie was outstanding in making Mo-dizz feel comfortable. I totally expected her to put Mo on a stack of phone books and lean her back over the sink for a shampoo, but was pleasantly surprised (and relieved) to see Miss Vonnie use a spray bottle and assorted hair accoutrements after draping Mo in a kid friendly drape and booster pillow.

Mo had an inch taken off all around, and no, I didn’t save the little hair scraps for her baby book. Shame on me, right? Then, after perusing several volumes of Dudley Q Hair Designs, we decided to have Mo’s hair braided into some zig-zag cornrows. All in all, about an hour and a half in the chair with the promise of some popcorn from Target (she’s so easy), and Mo-dizz was good to go.

Sitting in the chair, getting the ‘do done!

Our first trip to the hairdresser and I can’t really complain. Excellent service, on time, great price, happy kid and I don’t have to do any hair for at least a week. Popcorn from Target for everyone!!

Morgan got her hair “did”!!

I didn’t see that movie, but I feel like that’s what we have going on at our house recently. Mo-dizz is adamant about wearing a dress. . .every. . .single. . .day. Sure, it’s not totally unreasonable, but I feel like, we don’t live in 1898, so you can wear jeans and cords and *gasp* shorts, too! You don’t have to ride side-saddle anymore, either!

The dress wearing wouldn’t be such a big deal if several things were to fall into place:
1. She would actually agree to wear ALL of the dresses in her closet at some time or another. Nothing is more frustrating that trying to wipe caked on crap off of Co’s butt in one room while negotiating the merits of a turtleneck dress versus peter pan collar shirt-dress in other with a very pushy 3 year old.

2. She would be okay with leaving the Cinderella costume from Halloween in the dress-up box instead of putting it on top of the dress she is already wearing. I’m all for accessorizing, don’t get me wrong, but double dresses? And mixing Fall Forrest from Gymboree with Disney Princess Cinderealla Blue? Somebody call Stacy London!

3. She would rotate a skirt into the mix. To me, skirts and dress? Ultimate sisters, if not cousins of the non-enclosed leg family. No haps with Mo. It’s either a dress or, well, a tantrum.

Throw Christmas and two very indulgent grandmothers into the mix and you’ve got extravagant dress-up clothes I don’t even think some members of royal families are privy to. For example, back in August, a neighbor gave me a catalog for a place called Chasing Fireflies, which is a pretty upscale children’s clothing boutique. Mo-dizz flipped through it and settled her sights on a Queen of Hearts Costume. DH, in his infinite wisdom suggests that we purchase the costume for her for Christmas. Let me just throw in the fact that said costume retails for $98, with crown, scepter and neck piece sold separately, of course. Call me cheap, but I just can justify that for a 3 year old. But, I figure, if it’s for Christmas, well, one big gift and a stocking ought to be alright.

Mo talks incessantly about the Queen of Hearts Costume, telling one and all how that is what Santa Claus is going to bring her. She talked about it at school, at Sunday School, at home, at Target, all over the place, even when we picked up her Cinderella costume from and put that on her. Cinderella is her go-to gal, evidently. Queen of Hearts, Queen of Hearts, Queen of Hearts. Shortly after Thanksgiving, it dawns on me, I should probably order this thing. And of course, they don’t have it in her size. They’ve got a 10 and suggest to me to purchase that and whittle it down. Yeah, and when I’m done, I’ll finish adding the last two stars to the American Flag.

While all of these machinations are working themselves out, I’ve taken the girls to the library where Mo has happened upon a book called Lettice, about a rabbit who becomes a flower girl. My sweet, sweet Mo — she swings big. While she likes the story, she totally bypasses the flower girl rabbit and fixates on the bride (for some reason the rabbit takes dance lessons from a human instructor who is getting married). Mo now proclaims, “I am going to be a wedding lady for Christmas!” Oh boy. We ask her about the Queen of Hearts and she maintains that, yes, she is going to be that, too, but she is going to be a “wedding lady”, too!

What to do, what to do? Call in the big guns — the sewing skills of my mother and my mother-in-law (aka MIL). MIL decided to tackle the Queen of Hearts, my mother, the wedding lady dress. The sewing skills of both of these women is phenomenal. MIL made her ensemble that she wore to our wedding. My mom made many Halloween costumes for me and made that pumpkin suit for Co. MIL made the girls’ baptism dress and their Christmas dresses. My mom made them personalized rag dolls. Me? I bake, but I digress.

Suffice it to say, Christmas morning found Mo the owner of enough dresses to furnish any trousseau. Between the several school dresses from Santa, Mommy & Daddy, and even Co-dizzle, she’s set at least until kindergarten. As for the dress up dresses, well. . .see for yourself. . .

Queen of Hearts made by Grandma

click here to see the dress from Chasing Fireflies

The talent here is ridiculous, I know. That’s why I put in my order for a red dupioni silk wrap dress before word gets out and I can’t even get a friends and family discount!