The flu has come to our house and it is slapping us around like we owe it some money. The girls have fallen like dominoes, one right after the other, starting with Mo on Sunday, Co on Monday and Vivi on Monday night. Nothing saddens me more than seeing all three of them all deflated in their beds as the fever and coughing saps them of their energy.
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They all had the flu shot, as did the hubs and I. Thankfully, he is still well, whereas I’ve got something blooming in my throat that makes coughing feel like someone taking a hammer to my chest with each exhalation. It’s been a long five days to say the least. I have dosed everyone with alternating cocktails of acetaminophen, ibuprofen, expectorants and suppressants. The oft described fever dream is real, let me tell you. At least twice during the last few days, Mo has wandered downstairs in the middle of the night, glassy eyed and burning bright, looking for Co. Co, has been sitting in her bed, one leg protruding from under the covers for some relief, singing a song about “Where’s my banana?” and Vivi? She’s just a lump formerly known as baby, clinging to my hip and shoulder like a koala.
Parenting, as I’ve said before, is a challenge. When everyone is down for the count, including Mom, it feels near impossible. Once I get one little person squared away, another is coughing and croaking kurt requests for juice, tissues, or story-time. I’m pin balling between rooms, have the washing machine going double time to keep the sheets clean and you’d think we’d been drinking the hand santizer given how much we’ve gone through to keep the germs at bay. I started to feel like “stir fried-s#it” (to quote the hubs) on Tuesday afternoon. It’s turned in something that’s probably the flu (I’m going to the doc today), despite having had a flu shot already. This isn’t the first time I’ve fallen ill during the Christmas holiday. I can recall at least three other instances and one of which where I’m pretty sure I had bronchitis and a touch of pneumonia, I just didn’t go see the doc because — everyone else was sick. I know I can’t be a help to anyone if I don’t take care of myself, but the kids are looking like they’ve been run over by Santa’s sleigh and wiping their noses on pieces of coal. I’ve been trying to get them on the mend and tending to myself afterwards. Raise your hand if you know of what I speak. Yeah, I thought so.
I’ve called in all my favors from when I injured my leg. I’m pretty sure my parents have blocked my number. The babysitter came for a bit so I could at least go out and stock up on supplies, but I don’t want her catching this crud. Last night, I implored the hubs to stay home, something that I was loathe to do, but my health had taken quite a turn for the worse. By this morning, I must have looked like crap on toast, because not only did he stay home, he called the pediatrician and set up appointments for the girls, then he dosed me with some hot salt water with which to gargle and sent me back to bed. I’ve got a keeper.
Anyway, it’s about noon. The girls diagnosis has come in as the flu, but unless you get diagnosed within the first 24 hours, they can’t give you anything to knock it out except a suggestion for some DM laced cough meds and a “go with God”. Our house is littered with tissue packets, cough drop wrappers, ear covers for the thermometer, and the like. The lovies have been handed out, pi’s are on and so is the TV; I don’t even care at this point. Naps will be had all around.
Last night, I was awakened by Mo’s persistent cough. It just broke my heart because I know how painful it must be for her. I brought her some juice, some medicine and some cough drops. I put some Vicks Vapo on her chest and the bottoms of her feet. She snuggled into my arms and let me stroke her hair as her breathing became less labored and more even. Between coughing fits, she said, “You really know how to take care of a cold, Mom.” My poor little schmoo!
I’m just doing what I remember my own mom doing for me. Propping up pillows, wiping down my face with a cool washcloth, and just sitting with me. We used to have this cool mist humidifier that my mom would place on my nightstand to help eradicate some of the dryness in the room. She would tell me not to touch it, to let it just do it’s job, but as soon as she left the room, I put my whole face right up on it to get at the cool vapors. My face and hair thoroughly dampened, I would lie back on my pillows and drift off into a Robitussin filled sleep. Sometimes my mom would bring me a hot toddy — I was older by this point — and that honey,lemon, bourbon combination would ease the lightening bolts of pain in my throat and help me drop off to a more restful sleep.
The girls aren’t quite old enough for that yet, so we’re just doing some regular tea with milk and honey. When their coughs were at their worst, I just gave them teaspoonfuls of honey to coat their throats. That was the first time I saw them smile in a long time. I tried it myself, but I prefer my honey diluted with some lemon and tea. While I wait for this Mucinex to kick in, I’m going to stir up a home remedy. Maybe I’ll see you tomorrow for Recipe Friday. . .if not, I’ll probably be in the bottom of my tea cup.
Dr. Pat’s Hot Toddy Cold Remedy
Ingredients
2 ounces whiskey (we use Jack Daniels)
1 tablespoon honey
4 ounces water (hot from the tap)
1 teaspoon lemon juice (we use the stuff in the plastic lemon)
1 slice fresh lemon (if we don’t have this we don’t use it) (optional)
Directions
1. Place the whisky in a large microwave safe mug*.
2. Add the honey.
3. Pour the hot water into the mug over the spoon you used for the honey to get off the last little drops.
4. Add the lemon juice and stir well.
5. Place the mug in the microwave for 1 minute or until it is piping hot, but not boiling.
6. Add the lemon slice and serve.
*If you don’t have a microwave, which we don’t, you can pour the whiskey in a small cup or glass and submerge it in some boiling water until it’s the right temperature.