So this week, the girls have been doing day camps. Mo is doing her second year at an outdoor adventure camp and loving every minute of it. She gets to do kayaking, zip-lining, tree climbing, free fall swinging. . .it’s awesome. She comes home filthy, excited and full of new skills like knot tying, Hot 100 lyric recitation (you haven’t lived until you hear a 6 year old rap out “Dynamite”), and hand clapping games.
The hand clapping games aren’t that different from when I was a kid. There is still the traditional Miss Mary Mack and Miss Lucy with her steamboat. Now, though is this new game that I watched two girls play yesterday morning. I’d never seen anything like it.
The girls faced each other, pressed their hands together as if in prayer and bowed to one another.
Then, they pulled their hands apart as if they were going to do a chest press. One girl tried to slap the palm of the other girl. They took turns doing this until someone succeeded. The person whose hand got slapped placed it behind her back and so it went until the first person has both hands behind their back. If they hadn’t started the game by bowing to one another I probably wouldn’t have noticed. I think I can say the same thing for Mo, who is as enamored of Asian cultures as I am of French. The girls continued to play, not even pausing when the father of one of the players tried to say goodbye to his little camper. Instead of getting a kiss from his daughter, he got a face full of palm from her friend as he bent down to plant one on her cheek. And of course, I laughed. . .to myself, not in his face. I do have some manners, after all.
Later on in the afternoon, I was describing what I had seen to our babysitter and she said, “Oh yeah, that’s called Ninja. We play it all the time.” Now, our sitter is a rising college junior. I didn’t know that hand clapping games were still fashionable at that age. Evidently, on her campus, if ever a wait time exceeds five minutes, various games of Ninja will be in full effect.
This morning, I asked Mo how camp was going and how she liked her new friends. She enthusiastically described her favorite parts and when I asked her about the hand clapping game, she said, “You mean Ninja?”
Co stopped munching her Cheerio’s and said, “Isn’t that on the iPad?”
“Not Fruit Ninja,” Mo said, exasperated. “The game Ninja that you play with your hands.”
Co chewed thoughtfully for a minute. “Did I see that on YouTube?”
My four year-old citing the iPad and YouTube as her sources of information. If that wasn’t a defining generational moment, I don’t know what is.