I read this article in the latest issue of Glamour magazine about self-esteem and how one woman took charge of hers by simply writing positive affirmations on post-its and sticking them to her mirror. She wrote empowering messages about strength and self-definition and stuck them to her scale. Then, she decided to take it one step further. Armed with a pack of post-its and a sharpie, she is leaving a trail of positive post-its in public places for other women to find and she’s encouraging others to do the same. It’s called Operation Beautiful.
Usually when I read a magazine, especially Glamour, I think,”Huh, how nice.” and then flip the page to see what the new seasons of fashion is bringing and how I can get it for less. But this time was different. Like I have said before, for longer than I care to remember, I’ve had my fair share of self-esteem/body issues. I don’t know where it comes from, but I know that I’m at the point where I am truly moving past it. This article reminded me that even thought I’ve decided to embrace me for me, daily reminders of just have wonderful I am don’t hurt either.
The another plus of this project is that coming across an anonymous note that tells you how beautiful you are when you least expect it, will do wonders for those of us who like to explain away compliments. You know what I mean. How many times has someone told you that you’re looking fabulous, fit and trim or whatever and you say, “Thanks. I’m actually wearing two pairs of Spanx!”? Stop doing that! Take the compliment and keep it moving.
Anyway, Caitlin, founder of Operation Beautiful, has really inspired me. I was at the Dollar Tree yesterday and one of the first displays as you walk in was for a 4-pack of Post-Its. Coincidence? More like Back-to-School, but I’m focusing on the positive here. The girls and I are going out today; I won’t tell you where, but I’m sure there will be a trip or two to the ladies room. And while you take your chances on the cleanliness of public restrooms, maybe I can improve the esteem of those who go in after us.
