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Hilary With One L

Hilary With One L

Hilary With One L

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Too Much Birthday?

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When I was a kid, my birthday was my special day. No one else in the family had a September birthday.  Since it fell on, or the day after, the first day of school, my parents tried to make it very special for me.  I had a birthday party at McDonald’s once (this is like 1984), I had a party at Showbiz Pizza and one at Chuck E. Cheese, naturally.  When I turned 16, my parents took me and 16 of my girlfriends to a Mongolian Bar-B-Que and then back to the house.  There was cake, ice cream and presents (my first VS bra, thanks Daphne!). 

Chronologically, the girls are two years apart in age.  On the calendar, however, their birthdays are a mere two weeks apart.  Throw in indulgent grandparents, excited aunties and uncles, and loving parents — there’s a whole lot of celebrating going on.

This year just as in the years past, there have been multiple celebrations between August 23rd (Morgan) and September 8th (me and Coever).  Gone are the days of getting fêted on your birthday. We’re celebrating the day of, the day after, the day before your sister’s and the day after that because we can’t all coordinate to celebrate on the actual day. Cards and gifts come trickling in from August 20th through September 12th.

One gift has become three, five or more.  Mo wants to know what Co has.  I’m doling out cake ballz for breakfast and trying to to say “yes” instead of “no” because, Hey, it’s her birthday!  Co is asking for a 7 layer cake and some gold foil covered chocolate coins.  Mo is digging into a gift bag and wondering where is her makeup and some earrings. Co requests pizza for her special birthday dinner, with a side of sushi for Mo.  My phone is ringing with well-wishers and it’s not even 7:15 in the morning.

A couple of years ago, I decided that to get things under control, we’re saving the big, pony-ride-bounce-house-face-painters-limo-ride type celebrations for milestone numbers like 5, 10, 16, and 21.  Morgan tried to work 18 in there, but I may still be recovering from her 16th birthday bash if I know how my daughter operates.  Her ideal party, for any occasion, think MTV’s My Super Sweet 16 minus the bratty, whiny, snotty kids.  Just big location, big to-do, big dresses (she does love a costume change).  Blessedly, I’ve got many a year before I even need to start thinking about that.  Then, instead of “Hide yo’ kids“, it’ll be “Hide yo’ checkbook”.

I will say, though, the back-to-back birthdays has been a good time.  It’s nice getting the family together to celebrate our girls, who are pretty inseparable on most days that end in “y”.  I really enjoy the bathing suit and dress projects that I started with them.  I love to see how they’ve grown right before my eyes.  I hope they will get a kick out of it, too, especially when I present their respective collages and outfits to them for their 21st birthdays.

So, Pearl’s cupcakes have been eaten. The cake ballz are but a sugar coated memory. The presents have been opened, played with, and discarded to the playroom wasteland of forgotten toys.  Birthday celebrations are complete, at least for this week.
Craig turn **koff*koff* on September 29th. 
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IN: ON: September 9, 2011 TAGS: birthday, my girls BY: Hilary
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Four

September 8, 2007
3:27am
7 lbs. 0 oz.
21.5 inches long
Catherine Coever
Coever
Coever-Beezus
Coever-Biscuit
Coever B.
Catherine, my Catherine
Winge
Winjus-Ninjus
Snack Monster
Angry Chicken
I love you t-h-i-s  (arms stretched out wide) much and forever.
“As long as I’m living, my baby you’ll be.” 
Happy 4th Birthday to my little birthday present.

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IN: ON: September 8, 2011 TAGS: birthday, my girls BY: Hilary
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A Request

Rain, rain, go away.
Come again another day.
I don’t have any cool Hunter boots to wear, I can’t find my raincoat, and my umbrella is pretty holey (and I don’t mean blessed by the Pope).

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IN: ON: September 7, 2011 TAGS: fall, random BY: Hilary
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Back To School: Part 2

It finally arrived.
The first day of first grade for Morgan. 
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Look at that smile! She was super excited last night, so going to bed posed a bit of a challenge. She and Coever were talking, singing, and giggling well past their bedtime.  When I went to check on them around 9:30, Coever was face down and drooling onto her Hello Kitty Pillow; Morgan was trying to shove her flashlight and Magic Tree House book under her pillow.  
“You should be asleep,” I gently chided her, withdrawing the literary contraband.
“I’m just too excited to sleep!” she said.  “I’m ready to go. Right now, I’m ready.”  That’s really encouraging to hear.  After all the build-up of back-to-school only to have to wait another week before it can actually start? Talk about taking the wind out of your sails.  Yet, the eve before she crosses the threshold into true grade school, Morgan has an assuredness and calm below her surface excitement that belies her six years.  
I had hoped for a bright, sunny day on which to send her off, but the spatter-pattering of rain on the roof proved to be a more soothing way to get going.  There was no rushing and bustling.   Breakfast was a lackadaisical affair of Special K, fruit and juice.  Her backpack stood sentry at the front door.  Lunch had been made the night before.  Her back to school outfit had been carefully selected and adorned.

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Yeah, those boots are killer, and when I first showed them to her, she couldn’t wait to tromp through the house in them.  The clouds and rain prevented us from snapping the first day pics outside, but it didn’t sap Morgan’s sunny disposition as she dropped her backpack to strike a pose.
“Yia-Yia, Pop-Pop!” she called to my parents, who are in town visiting, “Come look at my 1st grade pose!”

Oh yeah, she’s ready to go.

Some moms I know are going to be grappling with tears and nervous tummies (their own, not their kiddos’s) as they navigate carpool.  Other moms will barely bring the car to a rolling stop before kicking Jr. out to the curb (“Tuck your head! Tuck your head!”).   I’d like to think I’m going to fall somewhere in the middle of the two extremes.  I’m looking forward to mornings of uninterrupted time to work, but I’m going to miss the random hugs and kisses the girls pepper me with as they skitter from one room to the next dressed up in all manner of frills and scarves.  I’ll enjoy appreciate running errands where I only have to unbuckle myself and can use a basket,  but I’ll miss the running dialogue that comes with two little imaginations at the helm of the race-car shopping cart.  The begging for fruitsnacks, ice cream, popcorn, free samples from the deli department and of course, multiple trips to the bathroom?  Not gonna miss that, but I digress.

I’d like to think I’ve provided both girls with a pretty awesome summer, one that they’ve thoroughly enjoyed and memories of which will last them well into the school year.  I wouldn’t say that the first day of school snuck up on us — c’mon, we’ve been doing a countdown calendar since the last day of school — but it’s hard to believe it’s already here. My girls are growing up and I’m amazed at who they’ve become in such a short period of time.  I mean, what did I think was going happen if I loved on them, nurtured them, encouraged them, and worked on making them thoughtful, independent, young ladies with strong character?

Two little ladies ready for anything, including the first day of school.
Hold on while I pat myself on the back (kidding, kidding). (no, I’m not). (no, I’m kidding).(sort of).

PS. If you have a chance, check out my friend Libby’s thoughts on sending her little boy off to kindergarten.

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IN: ON: September 6, 2011 TAGS: fall, my girls, school BY: Hilary
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Something New

I’ve gotten bored with running.  I came up with a pretty good circuit around the neighborhood, but now, I’m getting tired of passing the same ol’ mailboxes and what not.  Don’t even get me started on the Y. I mean, I really like the Zumba classes that I’ve been taking, but on the off days, trying to get on a treadmill is like standing in line for bread during the Depression.  I burn more calories trying to will people off the machines than I do actually moving my bod.

I’ve been driving around town (quelle surprise), and I kept passing the shopping center up the block from our house.  I noticed that one of the end units is undergoing some kind of renovation.  “Another restaurant,” I mused.  On one of my runs, which takes me past said shopping center, I saw they’d hung a banner in the window: www.richmondkettlebellclub.com

Hmmmm. . .consider my curiosity piqued.

I visited the website, and after a quick read through of the various tabs.  Here’s my Cliff-Noted version: Russian based physical training program involving a cannonball with a handle.

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Oh, I’m totally all over that. And yes, I know, I know, I’m tardy to the party.  But, like with my forays into Pilates, P90X and Zumba, better late than never.

I called them up and inquired about their free trial class, which I will be trying out this Saturday.  Sunday, I’ll probably be trying out Ben-Gay and Icy-Hot in various applications.  No pain, no gain, right?

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IN: ON: September 1, 2011 TAGS: activities, working out BY: Hilary
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Back to School

It’s that time of year again . . .
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I don’t know who’s more excited, me or. . .no, it’s me.

It’s totally me.

I love back to school. I always have. I love a new packet of lined paper, new workbooks.  I love a new Lisa Frank Trapper Keeper with a Sailor Moon spring-loaded pencil case and an Aladdin lunch box.  Yes, I did have all of those things, and yes, I was a high school sophomore at the time.  Ahhh, youth.

The past two weeks have been nothing but the express train to CrazyTown.  As the summer drew to a close, we were inundated with back-to-back Back to School preparation.  The girls will be going to different schools this year, which means, each school has had their own new family orientation,  new student orientation, new school/new buddy program orientation, and all matters of activities to get us all oriented acclimated.  There’s all this build-up and rah-rah leading up to the first day of school.  The girls were literally crackling with excitement and anticipation. I was steadily crossing off calendar days until THE day.

Then Irene happened.

One downed tree and 5 days without power later:  Morgan has missed her originally scheduled first day. She’s on summer vacation for another week.  If I had a little sound bite of that trumpet triplet — you know, waa, waa, waa — I’d definitely insert it here.  The silver lining here is more quality time with my first born before she is fully immersed in the rigors of first grade.  Her enthusiasm, however, is beginning to deflate like a left-over birthday balloon.   She’s gone as far as to remix the They Might Be Giants Song “I Never Go to Work” as “I Never Go to School”.  Wonderful.

Coever, however, was washed, fed and out the door for her scheduled first day, September 1st.

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Oh yeah, that’s today. I’m so giddy, I’m floating in my seat a little. 
Just as in other first-day-of-school experiences we’ve had, she was all smiles and “Bye, Mom. Bye!” as we left her in her teacher’s capable hands.  Let’s hope this good cheer carries her well beyond the first day, the first week, even.  

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Marking the occasion. 

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Afterschool.  Still smiling.

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“Whaddya mean I gotta go back tomorrow?”
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IN: ON: September 1, 2011 TAGS: fall, my girls, school BY: Hilary
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Let There Be Light

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After five days of cold showers, grilled food, and the continuous rumble of generators,  at 8:27 pm last night, there was.

Craig and I were so excited we were high-fiving like we won the Super Bowl.  Imagine, two grown folks skipping (yes, we skipped) through the house, turning on lights and flipping switches just because we wanted to see the lights comes on.

Oh, little blog, how I’ve missed you.
Oh, Electricity, you fickle mistress, I promise never to take you for granted again.

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IN: ON: September 1, 2011 TAGS: Odds and Ends BY: Hilary
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